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Will Your Faith Withstand a Mob? Part 2

Read Acts 7:48-60. Go.

We know little about his past but we know how Stephen behaved in the present presented at that point in time. And how the world responded to him.

How would the world respond to him today? Stephen has met his reward, so I think he would be ok with us putting him on trial again today. If it would strengthen the church’s resolve and stiffen the backs of the saints, I think Stephen would be alright with us dredging him into the present and asking the question, “How would today’s world respond to Stephen?” More importantly, “would the world respond differently to him today than they did back then?”

The following is from the book Good Faith by Kinneman and Lyons. It is full of Barna research like this. Note the high numbers of both US adults and US practicing Christians:

Is the the fate of the faith that was birthed 2,000 years ago under much worse conditions that these?
For devout people to be dubbed “extreme” because we follow the Word of God in the Old and New Testaments?
Is Christianity going to meet its final resting place at the hands of the mushy middle that has decided living by faith is extreme and they love to tell it on social media, discuss it with their similarly determined friends, and possibly, maybe even make disparaging comments to folks like you and me?

As time marches on and society waxes worse and worse, and the enemies of the faith move more boldly to stop people like us in schools, businesses, government halls, and even in our own homes, will the faith die with us?

If you don’t think the time is coming, I’ll see your doubt and raise you an Oregon baker who has been sued, not once, but now twice for refusing to give in and compromise his faith. Pardon the poker reference, but were gambling dangerously if we don’t think were at the point where living our faith I can very well incite the mob of this world today.

Is ancient faith for the modern world? How does that faith that was once delivered to the saints respond in times like these?


Of Slings and Stones- What Are You Aiming For?

Pre-thought: The Doom-loop- we go around and around with one another, setting an ideal for ourselves and never looking up to God, so we become satisfied with ourselves and begin to excuse ourselves for not living up to God’s ideal. How do you get trapped in the doom-loop? Topics, people, scenarios to avoid?

Here we go…

My son Elisha and I watched a documentary on Native Americans in West Tennessee, and we were discussing the hunting methods they used. I told him we needed to learn how to hunt with a slingshot in case we need an emergency way to hunt for food (we’re always talking about things like that.) He said we should use a sling like in the Bible. “Here’s what we do- we find a sheep farmer, and we ask him to let us live with his sheep…” “Why would we do that,” I asked, even as my mind had already gone where he was leading to. “That’s what David did!”

The mind of a child associated a certain skill with a person. We often ask “how” when the question should be “who.” Who is the best? Who demonstrates the ideal? If you want to be the best stone slinger, you seek out the best stone slinger and you do what he does.

The Bible doesn’t detail David’s education and training in stone slinging. David must have developed his ideal skill set in the mountains and fields, alone, with the sheep of his father. He probably had a child-like, single focused obsession with making the stone hit the chosen target, the way we used to shoot up a tin can with a BB gun until there was nothing left of it. I can hear his mother calling him inside more than once, because he was still slinging stones even when he was at home. “Stop slinging stones, David! Come inside! Get ready for dinner! Do your chores!” Maybe his father Jesse smiled and said, “Ease up, mom. Let the boy alone. He’s showing off for his brothers. Boys do stuff like that.” David’s mother may have even said, “He should be paying attention to other things. What will he ever amount to by slinging stones?”

David had learned the value of experimentation- trial and error, making minute corrections to his aim, his technique, and his equipment. David knew the value of choosing the right ammunition. He knew how to evaluate what we call ballistic coefficient today. He evaluated the way the shape and size of a stone affected its trajectory through the air, and how to choose for maximum distance and impact. How do I know? The Bible says he went down to the brook and chose 5 smooth stones. He didn’t pick up the soft, crumbly, irregular rocks of the mountainside. He chose the dense, well-worn, smooth and aerodynamic stones of the brook. And he chose 5 of them- one is never enough. Amen?

At some point he was able to employ his new skill against an actual threat, and he won. He walked down into the valley with the confidence of practiced skill. Some have said that David could have slung the stone in the opposite direction and God would have still caused it to kill the giant. I don’t believe it. That demeans the work and practice that David put into developing his defensive capabilities and hints that David could have been haphazard, unintentional, not diligent, and even negligent, and that God would have still used Him. First of all, that kind of slothful person would never have brought themselves to challenge the giant in the first place. Second of all, God seeks those who aspire to the ideal.

Slinging stones was not the only way in which David sought to be ideal.

David had been anointed by the time he squared off against Goliath. Samuel sought him out and called him in from the sheep herd to pour oil on him. He wasn’t the obvious choice. But he must have been ideal in God’s eyes. God didn’t make an off-the-wall choice just to make a point- I can turn a nobody into somebody. He saw what David did at times when no one else could see him, because he wasn’t able to come home on the Sabbath. He was unclean from handling dead animals so he couldn’t offer a sacrifice. But he worshipped anyway. He developed his skills. He wrote and sang his songs for an audience of God and sheep. He developed the love for Jehovah that led him to be so angry in the face of a giant who offered certain death to anyone who took him up on his challenge.

God did not make David fit the anointing that day. God had already chosen one who exemplified the ideal even though no one else knew about it. He conferred the anointing on a worthy and willing vessel.

But we fear the ideal because it makes us feel inadequate. We will sooner go to a friend who will make us feel secure in our inadequacies than to go to a teacher or mentor who will show us a way to greater strength, health, wealth, and fulfillment. Why? Because God loves me just the way I am? Because who has the right to judge me for the actions I’ve taken that led me to here and now?

We shun the ideal because we have failed to live up to it, or at lest failed to live up to some version of it. We run to man rather than to God, so we have a failed version of the ideal.

We denigrate the ideal because many in this room and in our world have never seen anyone around them aspire to the ideal.

Beauty shames the ugly. Strength shames the weak. Death shames the living- and the Ideal shames us all. Thus we fear it, resent it- even hate it. What are we to do about that? Abandon all ideals of beauty, health, brilliance, and strength? That’s not a good solution. That would merely insure that we would feel ashamed, all the time- and that we would even more justly deserve it.
Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

When I first read this quote from Dr. Peterson, I instantly thought of marriage and the family. When we celebrate Father’s Day, we are celebrating God’s ideal for marriage and family, at least when we celebrate it here at Beech Bluff. Out in the world it may just be a commercialized observance that sells cards and gifts for the men who contributed to you procreation. Or for the less cynical, a time to appreciate the love and influence a man (not necessarily the biological father). Increasingly, you don’t have to celebrate the influence of a man on father’s day in the world, because anyone can be a father regardless of gender and in fact, men have really messed up a lot of people’s lives.

[Eph 5:25 KJV] 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

[Eph 6:4 KJV] 4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Biblical ideals. They aren’t just aspirational, they’re obtainable.

But none of us comes to God as the ideal.

Many of us come to God with advantages and privileges- I came from a loving, intact family, was raised in a Pentecostal pew, and had academic promise that led to thousands of dollars in scholarships. The problem is our tendency, my tendency, to “waste good.” To give up the initiative, as General Colin Powell would say. Like the hare in the fable, we lounge when we should charge ahead, and give up ground to the tortoise.

Early advantages may have predictive value, but they don’t insure that a person will be happy, safe, secure, prosperous, or saved. Advantages early in life or marriage are not signs that a person has already obtained to the ideal. Advantages are tests to see if individuals will still come to God humbly and submit to a higher ideal.

What about you who have not come from a position of advantage? A whole lot is said today about the affects of fatherlessness, divorce, exposure to abuse and trauma, alcoholism and drug abuse, and the way these conditions impact a person’s future. I have no need to offer up statistics on these things. The common knowledge is enough to demonstrate that if you have experienced these things and more, life is more difficult in a lot of ways.

Here is the troubling thing. In the world today, in society as well as in the church, we tend to lean on the affects of these conditions as a crutch, or worse, wear them as a badge of honor. Tattoos honor awful circumstances and memorialize the pain of a disadvantaged existence. We develop relationships, friendly or romantic, that continue to remind us, on purpose, of the pain we have been through, and we do things to ourselves that have been done to us in the name of “This is just how life is- I can take it. I can make it. I’m a survivor.”

Communities or cliques or whatever you want to call it, we become a part of them and a part of this endless cycle, a doom-loop, of like-minded thinking and acting that idolizes the suffering and keeps it going in our lives, keeps us re-doing all the same routines that will never lift us out of our suffering. The ideals God has set in place for marriage, parenthood, productive living, ministering to our fellow man, are written off as too difficult or even as destructive, because the ideal seems to exclude people “like us.” The ideal sets the bar too high.

[Psa 121:1 KJV] 1 [[A Song of degrees.]] I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.

Christ is the God of the ideal. He doesn’t lock up His will for our lives behind a door and grant admission to only a few. It’s our own sense of guilt and shame that keeps us from reaching for God’s ideal.

He doesn’t set up the ideal as a way to look around an judge one another for our failings and faults. If we would look to the ideal God has set up for us instead of looking around, judging other or ourselves, then we would all move forward together. If we could stop looking at one another as haves and have nots based on the advantages or disadvantages we each appear to have, we would have more joy and move more quickly toward God’s will for each of us.

We certainly can’t hate those who are striving for the ideal, or hate the ideal itself. That only insures shared misery.

[1Jo 2:12-17 KJV] 12 I write unto you, little children, because your sins are forgiven you for his name’s sake. 13 I write unto you, fathers, because ye have known him [that is] from the beginning. I write unto you, young men, because ye have overcome the wicked one. I write unto you, little children, because ye have known the Father. 14 I have written unto you, fathers, because ye have known him [that is] from the beginning. I have written unto you, young men, because ye are strong, and the word of God abideth in you, and ye have overcome the wicked one.

Overcoming the doom-loop and striving for the ideal means acting in your own best interests, fighting a good fight, and keeping priorities right. this is important in every stage of life.

What do you need to be doing? Where are you heading? Is it the best direction for you? Seek first God’s kingdom…

Acts 2:38,


The Fight Isn’t Mine

[2Ch 20:15, 17 KJV] 15 And he said, Hearken ye, all Judah, and ye inhabitants of Jerusalem, and thou king Jehoshaphat, Thus saith the LORD unto you, Be not afraid nor dismayed by reason of this great multitude; for the battle [is] not yours, but God’s. … 17 Ye shall not [need] to fight in this [battle]: set yourselves, stand ye [still], and see the salvation of the LORD with you, O Judah and Jerusalem: fear not, nor be dismayed; to morrow go out against them: for the LORD [will be] with you.

The Lord chooses the enemy. He chooses the battlefield. He chooses the timing. He has chosen everything and has left nothing to chance. He expects us to know His will and to do it, nothing more, nothing less.

I felt strongly in the Lord to run for public office in 2016. I fought with it for months before deciding to go for it. I consulted with my wife and others about whether it was the right thing to do. We all agreed. We still agree that it was the right thing to have done, even though we lost the election. When it is God’s will, you never lose.

This election season came around, and I had the same struggle as before. I was back and forth, up and down. I talked it over, over and over again, with my wife and others I trusted. I had more encouragement to go for it this time than I did before. But I never could find peace in running another race at this time. God chooses the battles, the enemy, the battlefield, and the timing.

This is not the battle to fight right now. I am discouraged at the state of our young people, of the church, and of our nation. There is a lot to be done. There is another battle to be fought right now.

This is not the enemy. Before David fought a giant, he fought a lion and a bear. Our enemy is not flesh and blood, but spiritual principalities, and powers, and darkness in high places. It isn’t the time to face a political opponent right now. There are enemies for each of us to face, so ask, “Lord, should I go up against this enemy now?”

This is not the battlefield. There are a number of skirmishes to be won. I can’t connect the role of being an elected representative to any of them right now. There are public and civic duties I know I must fulfill, but not as a politician.

That doesn’t mean there will not be a time for that. Timing is everything, and God knows His timing for each of us. Each seed sprouts in its own time, and I have no doubt about the seeds that have been sown as I have obeyed God each step of the way. They will have their time.

I remember a few years ago, at a time when I was discouraged, the Lord spoke to me as He did to Moses, and said, “What is in your hand?” What do you already have a hold on that you can use to get ahead, make a difference, use in ministry, fight a battle? It is still the question to be answered. It is time to take inventory and decide what do I have that can do the greatest good right now. Not just temporary good, but eternal good.

Provoked: A Call to Extraordinary Good Works

(Image via Twitter. An upside-down flag is a distress call. Orwell speaks for himself.)

I’m sending out a call. A call to extraordinary good works.

And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works… (Hebrews 10:24)

A provocateur of love and good works for the people of God is what I’m called to be.

Now, just what these good works will look like is getting harder and harder to say these days. Consider that people who live by their biblical morality are finding it more difficult to do so without intrusion. Good works might not look so good to people around us.

Then Peter and the other apostles answered and said, We ought to obey God rather than men. (Acts 5:29)

Because our first love is to the Lord Jesus Christ, we obey Him in all things. If we seek first His kingdom, and His righteousness, then all these other things will be added to us. We can’t attract sinners by making them feel good. Our kindness will prick their hearts, and our refusal to conform to the world will be an assault to them.

Who by the mouth of thy servant David hast said, Why did the heathen rage, and the people imagine vain things? The kings of the earth stood up, and the rulers were gathered together against the Lord, and against his Christ. (‭Acts‬ ‭4‬:‭25-26‬)

Our good will be evil spoken of, our love will be rejected. The heathen will rage.

Let us be sure that we are citizens of the heavenly kingdom, that needs no patriots to stand up for it, that is ruled by a righteous King and is in danger of no tyrant. Then let us work with all the power Christ has given us from heaven through His Holy Spirit within us, to knock aside every obstacle that would prevent the lost from coming to Him. His kingdom come, His will be done.

Jesus has won the war, but we can’t lose the battle. Lest you think I’m too political or earthly-minded as you read my exhortations, read how Jesus was in constant defiance of the political structure; John’s gospel in particular details many times the Pharisees sought to take Him, taking up rocks to stone Him, but He escaped. And how the apostles regularly testified of Christ before councils, declaring the gospel and exerting their conscience in the face of opposition and tribulation. And remember that Paul’s end-run mission was to go before Caesar in order to talk about Jesus. Paul exerted his right as a Roman citizen in order to do so.

Under an oppressive regime, our apostolic forefathers had no Congress or Legislature to appeal to for just laws. They did not have the right to vote for strong moral leadership. I’d like to think that if they had such rights and opportunities, they would have taken them in order to spread the gospel and obey their conscience in the Lord.

Make no mistake- the source of our rights and righteousness is not government, it is God.

For nearly 200 years in the history of the United States, our laws established justice based on the moral law of the Bible. Not simply because the Bibles said so, but because living by the Word of God works! People who murder innocent people should be tried and found guilty, then punished. As a pro-life man, I simply want out laws to condemn murder and our courts to try murder and convict those who are guilty. I’m not looking to government to legitimize life in the womb, God has already done that. I just call on our government to establish and enforce laws to reflect the fact that life is precious, intrinsically valuable, and worthy of protection.

Marriage needs no government to legitimize it. The Bible defines marriage as God established it- between one man and one woman. Our laws have recognized this for the majority of our history, because it is good for society. I call on our government to continue to do what is best for our society and continue to recognize the true definition of marriage in spite of the loud calls of a vocal minority.

These are but two of the issues we as Christians need to be beside ourselves about, to the point of speaking and acting out in every way possible. Endure the verbal attacks and name-calling. We won’t endure anything worse than what the apostles endured, certainly nothing worse than what Christ endured. Take the softball approach to winning souls? We don’t have time for that. We can stand for truth AND draw lost and vulnerable people to Jesus. Don’t think that it is impossible. Our stance may not be popular, but we stand for an enduring covenant that will not pass away, one to which all are called to take part.

The time has come for us to stand up for matters of righteousness that are at stake in the world today. If we the Church will not, who will? The crucial balance between pleasing God, reaching mankind, and enduring hardship, at such a time as this, is what makes for extraordinary good works in public life.

Change: Part 3

It is difficult to tell at times the difference between having patience in waiting to make a change, and hesitating due to the fear of change.  I quote Stephen Covey from a post on Facebook on January 28th:

Patience is a self-willed restraint until you come to understand. Complacency is some times a mood of contentment and satisfaction independent of the surrounding environment. Patience is a key element of charity, and is a proactive response to difficult situations. 

I myself have learned to tell fear or complacency from patience by listing to myself and to the Holy Spirit.  I immediately feel guilt, tension, and hesitation in my body and hear the voice of God saying, “You know better…”  at times when I am resisting change that I know must be made.  That voice may be through the conscience or power of reasoning, but I acknowledge that it is God nonetheless. Complacency restrains growth in every area of life.  Resisting the voice of the Lord at these times not only will delay a blessing, but shows a resistance to hearing God that makes it easier and easier to resist in the future at times when the penalties for resisting may be even higher.

When patience truly is required, and waiting on change is the order of your steps, there should be a calm about waiting, even when the change is welcomed and anticipated.  Knowledge, wisdom, counsel, prayer and reflection are needed at these times; elements that make up what Solomon would refer to as discretion and judgment in the Proverbs.  

Isaiah 40:31 reminds us that those who wait on the Lord “renew their strength.”  The verse is a promise that we can do things with God’s strength and not faint in our pursuits.  Running alone will see us fall down exhausted while striving under our own power.  This is not an inactive waiting, it is an active anticipation and preparation for what is coming next, whether the change is around the corner or years away.  Fear dissolves and resolution builds to face the challenges; character and integrity develop in order to better shoulder responsibility.  

God’s timing is perfect and unquestionable.  He will never lay on us more than we can bear, whether in trials and testing, or benefits and blessing.  When He says go, go.  But if he says wait, then blessed will be the one who waits.

Change: Part 2

(Sent on 02/13/11 as Weekly Dispatch, my email to the rural west crisis team at Youth Villages)

We choose to change many times in order to benefit our lives in some way. However, change sometimes comes about due to negative circumstances.

I took a job I wasn’t ready for one time, as a director for a local child abuse prevention agency. Circumstances became very negative and I felt like I could no longer do any good for the organization. Day by day, the feeling of being there became unbearable.
We had a very well-respected minister come for our church’s homecoming service at Beech Bluff, and I had the great opportunity to drive him back to the airport in Nashville for his departure following the service. He gave me some very sage advice: stick with it, until you find something better.
This job obviously represented my income and provision for my family. Emotionally, I was at the point that I could not see anything else but the unpleasantness. But those words, as common-sense as they were, were a wake-up call. So from that point, I can identify the following points about problem- or crisis-induced change that helped me out:
  • In emotional situations, rely on common sense and facts to make decisions, not emotions.
  • Allow significant others to help you frame the situation and focus on reality.
  • Don’t compromise your faith, values, or relationships for the sake of getting out of an unpleasant situation.
  • As in the first post on this subject, don’t let go of one branch until you have a hold on the next one.
  • Don’t let the negative aspects of a situation be the driver for the change. Find the good, beneficial, positive reasons for change. Find a real opportunity, the next step, the thing you really want to dive into and make plans to direct your energy there (see Change, Part 1.)
  • Make your departure a positive experience. Don’t burn bridges.
These are just a few considerations from my experience. I’m sure you could add others, but I hope this helps when you find yourself facing change.

Change: Part 1

Weekly Dispatch

(weekly email for helping professionals; distributed to Youth Villages Rural West crisis team)
Change: Part 1
There is a time for every purpose.  Change is inevitable.  A lot of things bring about changes in life, but for starters, time comes to initiate change in order to better our lives and the lives of our family members.
My family and I have undergone some serious changes in the past few months, not the least of which was deciding to change churches from the one in which my wife and I grew up.  Even positive change is stressful and fraught with questions.  These are some lessons I learned in the process of making positive changes:
·      Have a plan; be intentional.
·      Count the cost.
·      Don’t let go of one vine before grabbing on to another; you’ll fall.
·      Go where you can grow.
·      Love where you are going and what you are doing.
·      Be patient; take your time.
Next post: what to do when problems call for change.